Stop Looking For Love in Others, Love Begins With You

“All my life, I thought of love as some kind of voluntary enslavement. Well, that’s a lie: freedom only exists when love is present. The person who gives him or herself wholly, the person who feels freest, is the person who loves most wholeheartedly … In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.’ No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.” -Paulo Coelho- Loving freely, without trying to own another is the key to evolution as both…